Becky. 20. Asexual panromantic.
Talk to me in either female or male pronouns, doesn't bother me.
I'm a multishiper and multifandom blog.
I also adore arts and crafts, and often will post pictures or text posts about whatever I'm working on or learning.
I am interested in witchcraft and paganism, but can't practice until I move out.
"Can I ask when you decided to be asexual?"
Gods above and below I hate that question
In light of the 50 Shades of Grey trailer coming out today, quick reminder that that book is about an abusive and controlling relationship, not BDSM.
Fanfiction (published or not) is important for women of all ages to explore gender roles and sexuality in a way that is less stigmatized and more accessible.
But do not do the BDSM community a disservice by calling the relationship described in the book a BDSM experience.
On one hand I’m pissed because it’s my birthday and my parents are still sleeping despite assuring me that they’d set their alarms for ten(they didn’t) and I want to go in there and wake them up.
On the other hand I’m ten years passed that flying and would probably be told that my trip to the aquarium for my birthday is cancelled because I woke them up.
I think my favorite realization so far concerns the ‘dogs show restraint against their favorite treat because owner says no’.
No dog instantly knows what ‘no’ means. They have to be trained right?
But once you teach it to them they understand and listen.
It’s basically disproving the ‘boys will be boys’ mentality that insists that children grow out of the lessons they learned at that age and that at adulthood they know what they should and shouldn’t do.
A dog allowed to sleep on your bed as a puppy isn’t going to understand why he isn’t allowed to when he’s full grown.
Someone allowed to abuse and victimize others as a child isn’t going to understand why they aren’t allowed as an adult
holy shit there is a name for it
I identify as neither ace nor aro and I get this sometimes.
Oh my gosh there’s finally a word for “I don’t always feel it but when I do I don’t want it”!!!!
THIS FUCKING CHANGES EVERYTHING
THERE’S A WORD FOR LIKING THE IDEA BUT NOT THE ACTUAL ACTIVITY
OH MY GOD
Saw a picture about slapping your girl’s ass and stuff like that.
Cool if that’s what you’re into, but for me you hit me once I will hit you back and end the relationship. Even play hits. I don’t enjoy being hit in any manner
Excuse me while I buy this album.
I’ve lost the right to say I’m not good at femme things. Two bobby pins and nothing else were all I could find and I still managed to get all my hair off the back of my neck
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*quiet little voice*Any news if Varric’s gonna be an LI?